Monday, 20 July 2015

LETTER: Madonna’s act of love

Dee Blackie, A child protection activist, responds to an article in the Business Day.

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Friday, 10 July 2015

ABANDONED CHILDREN, SA’S DIRTY LITTLE SECRET

By ROBYN WOLFSON VORSTER
Originally appeared in Daily Maverick on the  09 JUL 2015 10:10 (SOUTH AFRICA)
Around 3,500 children are abandoned in South Africa annually. News of yet another child found dead or left in a precarious position elicits strong public condemnation and emotion. Public consensus on the issue of child abandonment generally provokes a knee-jerk response to blame and demonise mothers. But despite our deeply felt beliefs, research has indicated that while abandonment affects individuals, it is often as a result of wider socio-economic factors and ultimately, politics.
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Wednesday, 8 July 2015

MANDELA DAY, 18 JULY 2015 - Abba's Wishlist


If you want to get involved by making things a little bit easier for personnel at the Abba offices, herewith our current wishlist:
  • For outside/garden counselling area: outdoor garden table & chairs and a big garden umbrella (preferably NOT plastic)
  • For inside counselling area: dry walling to be installed, making 1 room into 2 smaller rooms
  • Wall-mounted heaters
  • Printer
  • Small projector to be used during training & presentations
  • 18 channel switchboard with 4 incoming lines
  • Carpentry services – building of book shelves & office cabinets
For more information please contact Lize on e-mail: lized@netdial.co.za

THANK YOU!


Monday, 22 June 2015

App guides parents through child visas




A local internet app that helps parents navigate South Africa’s maze of new child visa regulations has been accessed more than 8 000 times in its first three weeks.


The South Africa Child Visa Checklist app, which went live on May 30, is a free web-based service created by travel company the Discover Africa Group.
The app was set up after strict new regulations for children under 18 travelling to or from SA came into effect on June 1 despite opposition from within the tourism industry.
The regulations include the need for children to have an unabridged birth certificate, and other documents on a case-by-case basis, including court orders and adoption certificates.
The app was first developed as an in-house aid for travel consultants, before being published online for anyone to use.
Its creators said it was developed to “simply explain” the 15 different documents and 37 “unique scenarios” for children travelling in and out of SA.
“(It) removes the fear, uncertainty and complexity faced by parents trying to work out exactly which documents they need when travelling with their youngsters.”
Discover Africa Group spokeswoman Asanda Mcoyana said this week the app had been shared 1 500 times on Facebook since its launch.
She said the group had received “thank you” e-mails from travel agencies abroad.
Many agents said that they been using the tool to advise their clients travelling to SA.
The app, which can be accessed on mobile and desktop devices, gives users a step-by-step guide to which documents they need when travelling to or from SA with minors.
It does this by asking multiple-choice questions of travellers, such as who the child is travelling with; if the child’s parents are married, divorced or legally separated; and if the child has been adopted or is in foster care.
Visit drivesouthafrica.co.za/child-visa-checklist for more information.

Friday, 19 June 2015

CHOOSE TO CARE - Unplanned Pregnancy Campaign

Yesterday marked the launch of the Unplanned Pregnancy Campaign, "Choose to Care".


The aim of the campaign is to change mindsets from "shaming and blaming" young girls who find themselves with an unplanned pregnancy, to "care and compassion", and the desire to help them make wise choices for themselves and their unborn child.



Visit the website as a wonderful tool, full of information! Also refer people to the website for help.

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Let’s keep on igniting a passion!





Congratulations Albie!!!

We at Abba Specialist Adoption and  Social Services would like to congratulate Albie Jackson on her graduation as a Social Worker.

Well done Albie, we're very proud of you.

Thursday, 11 June 2015

#ChildProtectionWeek - It also takes a village to rescue a baby

From news24.com 

2015-06-09 09:06
Sergeant Nolan Wallace comforts the ice-cold but crying baby girl as he carries her from the pit latrine.
Sergeant Nolan Wallace comforts the ice-cold but crying baby girl as he carries her from the pit latrine. (Supplied)

The story in today’s Witness about the rescue of a newborn baby girl that was tossed down a pit toilet has both uplifting and depressing elements.
What would drive a mother to do this, is the first of many questions readers may have when reading the story. It is easy to look on in judgment of the mother that threw the baby into the toilet, and while this can never be condoned, it was probably the action of a desperate woman who may have felt she had few other options.
A study by the National Adoption Coalition published online may help answer the questions formulated in response to this story. The 2014 study quotes Child Welfare SA’s estimate that more than 3 500 babies were abandoned in South Africa in 2010.
They say the contributing factors to child abandonment are restrictive legislation, poverty, mass urbanisation, high levels of violence — ostensibly gender based violence and rape, extreme gender inequality, high levels of HIV/Aids, and diminishing family support.
The study also highlights African ancestral beliefs which indicate that the ‘Western’ practise of adoption is seen as problematic.
The National Adoption Coalition also touches on the sugar daddy phenomenon as a cause of teenage pregnancy and says abortion remains a contentious issue with women choosing this option often being labelled as immoral rather than as a woman making an informed and responsible choice.
The study also says that 65% of abandoned babies are newborn and primary site of abandonment is toilets, drains, sewers and gutters. Rubbish sites are the second most used location to leave an unwanted child.
The old adage that it takes a village to raise a child is perhaps particularly apt in the context of child abandonment.
While it is easy to blame government for not placing enough emphasis on birth control, sex education and social welfare support, society must look to itself and ask what more could be done to support and assist desperate mothers.
The beacons of hope here are that the baby survived, thanks to her rescuer.
It is not the first time that Search and Rescue policeman Lieutenant Jack Haskins has lowered himself into the putrid recesses of a pit latrine to rescue an infant. Haskins has once again shown that his courage and dedication to helping the community he works in is both selfless and heroic